Frize hair instead of growing flat hair for men?

hey all im growing my hair out and its almost to my eyebrows now. my hair always gets poofy and wavy. pomeade makes my hair feel greasy, and doesnt stop the curl in my bangs. does using alot of anitfriz conditioiner really help? also, will my bangs straighten out more when theier longer?





p.s. i want my hair to look like this.


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any other haircuts or tips would help . THANKsFrize hair instead of growing flat hair for men?
straighten it silly :P

clarins